Is It Okay for Christians to Use Online Dating Sites?
I hear this question a lot, and it's a fair question. I personally believe it's okay for a Christian to use an online dating site. However, it depends on HOW and WHY you do it. For instance, if you're desparate to be in a relationship and obsessed with it to the point of joining all the Christian dating sites, you're in trouble. Or, if you're a woman and aren't careful then that's a bad thing. On the other hand, if you are wise and patient in your use of these sites I believe it's okay, but it's not for everyone. If you would be embarrassed to tell someone you met your girlfriend or wife online, then you probably shouldn't do it.
I love the fact that that you can get to know the other person(s) via email and the the phone before you ever meet. This have several advantages, including eliminating the ones with whom you're not compatible without going on dates and really getting to know the ones with whom you are compatible before you meet them in person. The advantage of the latter is that you can really get to know the person without the distraction of all the stuff that comes along with being on a date. I believe this is the single greatest advantage of online dating for Christians.
